Scorpio in Relationships

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Relationships with people who have the same Sun sign as yourself often go well initially.   Common ground is established and is usually the cause of the attraction in the first place.  However, it is equally likely to cause the most challenge to a long lasting relationship.  This is because each person has a similar outlook on life and therefore needs to find new experiences with which to grow and develop.  The positions of the Ascendant, Moon, and the rest of the planets at birth will play an important role for both people.

I expect you don’t need me to tell you as you have probably heard about it from others anyway, but here goes, those born under Scorpio have an intense love nature.  The trick is to keep it under control if you can do this you will be happy.  Guard against sudden and impulsive attachments that have no basis of real affection.  Scorpio subjects are critical and not easy to please, and can become violently jealous with little or no cause, but they may be successfully handled by a tactful partner who knows, and allows for, all the vagaries of their strong personality.

The Scorpion’s desire to stay with a relationship holds good for partnerships, although their energy may need to be channelled if it is not to prove disruptive. They prefer people who are equally strong-willed but, despite outward appearances, may themselves be weaker than they look.  Despite the robust appearance Scorpio’s can be prone to depression, from which they find it hard to emerge, and this may contribute to the apparent extremes in marriage some are very good, others less so.

If you are a man who has attracted a Scorpio woman, you must be someone really special as they will not choose just anybody.  If you break up, your next girlfriend will have quite a lot to live up to because Scorpions are never boring companions.  They are very emotional and when they fall in love they do so with such ardour that it can quite take one's breath away.  There is also a reverse side to their emotions, Scorpio’s get jealous very quickly, and their anger will erupt like a volcano if they have even the slightest suspicion that you have been flirting with somebody else. Even if you are quite innocent, the suspicion can be so powerful that it could break up your relationship.

Scorpions love to be in control of their lives and usually are at most times.  They want to run everything themselves, even their love lives. You must expect that your Scorpion sweetheart will want to satisfy his or her own needs first before considering yours. However, once committed, he or she will be extra sweet and loving.

Scorpio’s make good friends and can be found to associate with people born under the same Sun sign, or at any rate belong to the same element being water.  It is said they can very quickly sense there is another Scorpio in the room as if there is some hidden power to their nature when they meet they usually get on well.  They also get on well with other water signs, Pisces and Cancer. 

Scorpions are fussy about who they want as a friend consequently they do not have many close friends.  They have an ability to see through people and understand their intentions perhaps even before the person realises what they are themselves. Although, they can get it wrong occasionally and consequently cause disruption and ill feeling.  On the other hand, once you have been accepted by a Scorpion, he or she will become a very faithful friend. 

If you are friends with a Scorpion, do not expect to keep many secrets. For instance, if you have fallen for the new person in your life, it will not be long before your Scorpio friend has worked out who it is.  He or she is not only good at guessing other people's feelings, but can also ask a lot of questions.  It is always a good idea if you want to remain friends with a Scorpio not to stick your nose too deeply into the Scorpion's private life.  Scorpions do not like that at all.  They like to work out the lives of others but will guard their own secrets closely. 

Scorpio parents will do their utmost for their offspring, but they can ask for too much and should develop a balanced approach to parenthood, allowing their children some freedom.   

Scorpio, here is where to look for your most harmonious partnerships in friendship and/or marriage.  Try looking for people whose birthdays fall on or between the following dates:-  

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