Libra in Relationships

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'Friends and Lovers Compatibility Guide'.

Relationships with people who have the same Sun sign as yourself often go well initially.   Common ground is established and is usually the cause of the attraction in the first place.  However, it is equally likely to cause the most challenge to a long lasting relationship.  This is because each person has a similar outlook on life and therefore needs to find new experiences with which to grow and develop.  The positions of the Ascendant, Moon, and the rest of the planets at birth will play an important role for both people.

Here is the potential for a loyal, cheerful and affectionate friend,  Librans are always ready to put their own interests last.  This the sign of the scales and true enough are able to function better than most in a relationship when able to weigh the pro’s and the con’s. They are, as a rule, probably more happy and contented in close personal relationships than any other type.  Their deep affection triumphs over difficulties and conflicts of temperament that would wreck the majority of marriages.

There are few signs in the zodiac which make genuine ‘good friends’ Libra is amongst the best for this.  Libra is an air sign, so this means that Librans get on well with the other air signs, Aquarius and Gemini.  There is a certain sacrificial element to Librans in that they are nearly always ready to do others a good turn, but they also care about other people's opinions of them.  So if you want to keep a real friend treat them as one. 

The kind nature of Libra risks acquiring friends who really only want to exploit their affections.  It is difficult to understand why Librans often find it hard to distinguish between true and false friends, so they sometimes experience terrible disappointments in their relationships.  If they manage to find a true friend, they can be relied on to be both faithful and considerate and would always be keen to preserve the friendship.

In a close relationship, Librans can be complete romantics and regard this relationship as very important, so much so that even the Libran indecisiveness can be overcome for a time.   They tend to fit into the domestic scene very well, being capable of organising the household with their usual equable approach to things, including money.

Some advice if you are a girl who has fallen for a Libran, do not expect him to rush up and invite you to go out with him, you see it’s the scales, the weighing up of the situation which will prevent him from boldly going where maybe no man has gone before.  He may be unable to make a decision about what would happen if he asked you first.  The conundrum of answer variations would be to much for him to contemplate making a rash decision.  The best way to tackle this is ask him first.  You need not fear that he'll feel that you have offended him by taking the initiative.  On the contrary, he will just be grateful that he has been spared the job of making a decision.   

Librans of both sexes are very romantic and on a date want everything to go perfectly to plan.  The taxi the flowers the meal the candles and the wine will all be planned in advance and it will upset the balance if things don’t work to schedule. They like everything to be just so as well so the first time you invite your friend home to tea, do not offer him milk from a carton or bottle, but try to borrow a tea-set with a proper jug and sugar bowl do you get the picture.

Librans do not like being alone and love to have someone to look after and care for.  They often find it difficult to understand their own feelings and may therefore mistake friendship for love.    It can be hard work having a Libran sweetheart, because they are so romantic and expect you to live up to their ideals.  When Librans fall in love seriously, they will do move mountains for their beloved.  They make so many sacrifices that it can end up having a stifling effect on their partner.  It is important to stress that the Libran must learn to satisfy their own needs as well.

Librans also make kind parents be they need to be more decisive and stronger willed and  insist upon children doing as they are told.

Libran’s, here is where to look for the most harmonious partnerships in friendship and/or marriage.  Try looking for people whose birthdays fall on or between the following dates:-

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