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Aries in Relationships
For more accurate results a personalised 'synastry' analysis which combines the birth data for your chart with that of another's should be drawn up. This is a better way to highlight the trends and the tendencies for a relationship be it for Business, Friendship or Romance. We can draw a comprehensive chart for you here, just click on the 'services' link and then the 'Friends and Lovers Compatibility Guide'. Relationships with people who have the same Sun sign as yourself often go well initially. Common ground is established and is usually the cause of the attraction in the first place. However, it is equally likely to cause the most challenge to a long lasting relationship. This is because each person has a similar outlook on life and therefore needs to find new experiences with which to grow and develop. The positions of the Ascendant, Moon, and the rest of the planets at birth will play an important role for both people. Aries
are not easy to get on with in a close personal relationship.
Being a cardinal dynamic, starter sign they are leaders of
others and there is no exception to the rule in their relationships.
Moreover, they seem quite at a loss to understand the
psychology of the other sex and often lack the necessary tact, which
can cause a lot of pain. But
they are unaware this is the case most of the time and will always
rise in arms to defend their spouse and children from the attacks of
other people. They are
excellent providers for their families and in providing for their
own comforts. A
little known tendency, which seems a contradiction in terms, Aries
folk often suffer acutely through their affections and feelings but
as you can see one would never suspect this by the seemingly
thoughtless actions they make.
Their intense pride impels them to appear unmoved.
Nevertheless Arian women often gain a distinct advantage,
socially and financially, as a result of a close partnership or
marriage. In
close personal relationships, Arians are very sexual and can be very
passionate. A friend of
mine once told me this about her Arian boyfriend of some 5 years,
who I have also known as a friend for some time, (she was a Virgo,
but not for long, I Gest, seriously Virgo and Aries is an unlikely
combination but they have made it work successfully)
“he doesn’t think of a goodnight kiss and a cuddle its
just got to be sex, sex, sex if I so much as get close to him in
bed” I am sure this
was not exactly true but it serves well to indicate the Arian sexual
nature. Aries men look for a strong partner. Arian women are equally
demanding and often prefer a career to being at home, although the
two can be combined, providing there are no adverse influences
elsewhere on a person's chart. There
are two types of Arians those that are faithful and those who are
continually moving on to new relationships and challenges.
As parents, Arians in the main will encourage their children
in a variety of activities. It
can however be all too easy for the Arian parent to run out of
patience and become angry which can overshadow the wishes of the
child, and that can easily result in discord.
If you have an Arian as a friend there is no chance of
getting bored, because he or she will be on the move all the time.
Arians love a lot of social life and usually know lots of people. Here
is a finding, Arians are also rather naïve and find it hard to
distinguish between real friends and those who just hang around to
see what benefits they can get from their Arian associate.
Sometimes, Arians may fall hook line and sinker for someone
in a close personal relationship but wind up being very disappointed
when they are let down. Arians
are very faithful to their friends and are willing to do a lot for
them, but they also get very disappointed, annoyed and frustrated
and sometimes angry if their efforts are not appreciated.
It is usually great fun having an Arian as a partner.
He or she will be enthusiastic and very romantic, but it may
prove difficult to hold on to an Arian, as they do not like being
tied down and they get bored very quickly and always like something
new. There ideal would
be to have several partners at the same time (chance would be a fine
thing). On the other
hand, they get furious and very jealous if their partners have the
same idea. Here
is another observation, only an Arian will recognise deep down.
I say this because of the natural outer, extroverted
leadership qualities which are displayed and which others see often
do not tell the full story. Deep
down the Arian is pretty insecure, so if you are in love with one,
you must remember that he or she has a great need to be reminded
frequently of your love. Aries,
here is where to look for your most harmonious partnerships in
friendship and/or marriage. Try
looking for people whose birthdays fall on or between the following
dates
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