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Aries in Relationships
For more accurate results a personalised 'synastry' analysis which combines the birth data for your chart with that of another's should be drawn up. This is a better way to highlight the trends and the tendencies for a relationship be it for Business, Friendship or Romance. We can draw a comprehensive chart for you here, just click on the 'services' link and then the 'Friends and Lovers Compatibility Guide'. Relationships with people who have the same Sun sign as yourself often go well initially. Common ground is established and is usually the cause of the attraction in the first place. However, it is equally likely to cause the most challenge to a long lasting relationship. This is because each person has a similar outlook on life and therefore needs to find new experiences with which to grow and develop. The positions of the Ascendant, Moon, and the rest of the planets at birth will play an important role for both people. Aries are not easy to get on with in a
close personal relationship.
Being a cardinal dynamic, starter sign they are
leaders of others and there is no exception to the rule
in their relationships.
Moreover, they seem quite at a loss to
understand the psychology of the other sex and often
lack the necessary tact, which can cause a lot of pain. But they are
unaware this is the case most of the time and will
always rise in arms to defend their spouse and children
from the attacks of other people.
They are excellent providers for their families
and in providing for their own comforts.
A little known tendency, which seems a
contradiction in terms, Aries folk often suffer acutely
through their affections and feelings but as you can see
one would never suspect this by the seemingly
thoughtless actions they make.
Their intense pride impels them to appear
unmoved. Nevertheless
Arian women often gain a distinct advantage, socially
and financially, as a result of a close partnership or
marriage. In close personal relationships, Arians are
very sexual and can be very passionate.
A friend of mine once told me this about her
Arian boyfriend of some 5 years, who I have also known
as a friend for some time, (she was a Virgo, but not for
long, I Gest, seriously Virgo and Aries is an unlikely
combination but they have made it work successfully) “he doesn’t
think of a goodnight kiss and a cuddle its just got to
be sex, sex, sex if I so much as get close to him in
bed” I am
sure this was not exactly true but it serves well to
indicate the Arian sexual nature. Aries men look for a strong partner. Arian women are equally
demanding and often prefer a career to being at home,
although the two can be combined, providing there are no
adverse influences elsewhere on a person's chart. There
are two types of Arians those that are faithful and
those who are continually moving on to new relationships
and challenges. As
parents, Arians in the main will encourage their
children in a variety of activities.
It can however be all too easy for the Arian
parent to run out of patience and become angry which can
overshadow the wishes of the child, and that can easily
result in discord.
If you have an Arian as a friend there is no
chance of getting bored, because he or she will be on
the move all the time. Arians love a lot of social life
and usually know lots of people. Here is a finding, Arians are also rather
naïve and find it hard to distinguish between real
friends and those who just hang around to see what
benefits they can get from their Arian associate.
Sometimes, Arians may fall hook line and sinker
for someone in a close personal relationship but wind up
being very disappointed when they are let down. Arians are very faithful to their friends
and are willing to do a lot for them, but they also get
very disappointed, annoyed and frustrated and sometimes
angry if their efforts are not appreciated.
It is usually great fun having an Arian as a
partner. He
or she will be enthusiastic and very romantic, but it
may prove difficult to hold on to an Arian, as they do
not like being tied down and they get bored very quickly
and always like something new.
There ideal would be to have several partners
at the same time (chance would be a fine thing).
On the other hand, they get furious and very
jealous if their partners have the same idea.
Here is another observation, only an Arian
will recognise deep down.
I say this because of the natural outer,
extroverted leadership qualities which are displayed and
which others see often do not tell the full story. Deep down the
Arian is pretty insecure, so if you are in love with
one, you must remember that he or she has a great need
to be reminded frequently of your love.
Aries, here is where to look for your most
harmonious partnerships in friendship and/or marriage. Try looking
for people whose birthdays fall on or between the
following dates
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